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Filtering by Tag: Nanny vs Postpartum Doula

Overnight Doulas vs Night Nannies

Chelsea Gonzales

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We recently discussed the difference between a nanny and a daytime postpartum doula. If you read that article, you now understand just how valuable a postpartum doula can be to a new mother and her baby, and why a doula might be a better option than the more common nanny.

This is all great, but what about nighttime care? The family will be sleeping at night, so does it really matter if you choose a night nanny over an overnight postpartum doula?

Because a doula is more expensive than a night nanny, many new parents may be tempted to go the cheaper route. However, there definitely is a reason overnight doulas charge a bit more, and the extra cost is well worthwhile.

Breastfeeding Focused

Just as daytime postpartum doulas want your breastfeeding goals to be met, so do nighttime doulas.

Many night nannies give bottles in order to allow mama to sleep. This is thoughtful in a way, but it also makes building a nursing relationship difficult. Obviously, you could ask a night nanny to bring baby to you instead, but she still may not realize the importance of this, and she probably will not provide support when doing so.

Postpartum doulas, on the other hand, understand how important those first few weeks are when establishing a nursing relationship. They also have knowledge that can help you improve your breastfeeding skills.

For instance, most postpartum doulas recognize hunger signals quickly, meaning that many times you and baby can be ready to nurse before the actual crying begins. Additionally, a doula will set up a nursing station for you, ensuring you have any pillows you need, as well as water. This is invaluable in the middle of the night when getting up is less than ideal.

Help Establishing Routine

In addition to supporting your breastfeeding relationship, doulas are also excellent at helping families establish nighttime routines. Whereas a night nanny will be focused entirely on caring for your infant, a postpartum doula focuses on the family as a whole, meaning your entire family will be getting the nightly rest they need by the time your doula leaves you.

This is, of course, extremely helpful when it comes to adjusting to such an enormous change.

Light Housework or Cooking

Generally speaking, night nannies focus only on baby. Postpartum doulas on the other hand, are happy to lend a hand straightening things up while baby sleeps. Some may even make you a light breakfast before leaving for the day.

Of course, mama and baby are a doula’s number one priority, but when both are taken care of, she makes a point of seeking out other ways to help before taking a break herself.

Expertise and Respect

Many nannies have tons of experience with kids. However, not all nannies do, and since there is no true nanny certification out there, you really never know what you're going to get.

Because postpartum doulas must be certified, you can rest easy knowing the caretaker you hire has a certain level of expertise. This means you will feel no doubt that baby will be safe, and you both will be well cared for by a doula.

Doulas also do not impose their own parenting tactics on clients. Instead, they will follow your lead and respect your wishes, offering helpful tips and helping you ensure your parenting methods are safe along the way.

An overnight doula is definitely the way to go when you need nighttime help with a newborn. Do you need some overnight postpartum help? Please contact us for information on our Oklahoma postpartum doula services.

4 Ways a Daytime Postpartum Doula Differs from a Nanny

Chelsea Gonzales

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Many new mamas find they need a bit of help in the first few weeks after having a baby. Sometimes a mother is recovering from a cesarean and isn't as mobile as she would like. Other times, she's suffering from postpartum depression. However, the vast majority of the time, these ladies just need some assistance adjusting to their new normal.

This is perfectly understandable and completely normal. After all, in the past we women have had an entire village of other ladies to help us out after birth. However, many modern women are unsure who to turn to in this time of need.

Of course, there is the option of hiring a nanny. However, a nanny doesn't really offer all that a brand new mother needs. This is where a postpartum doula steps in.

Wondering how the care offered by a postpartum doula differs from that of a nanny? Read on!

Mama Care

A newborn nanny comes in to take care of the newborn and only the newborn. While you can hire nannies who are willing to take on older siblings as well, you aren't likely to find a nanny who'll take care of mama.

Considering that the mother just gave birth, she needs someone to care for her too. Fortunately postpartum doulas are happy to take care of baby while also checking in on mama, making sure she has water, bringing her snacks, and even checking in on her emotional health.

Bonding Help

Good nannies are wonderful in that they take great care of their charges. In fact, most nannies even form strong bonds with the children they care for. This is sweet and can help put a mother's mind at ease, but it isn't enough for the brand new mom who is still bonding with the baby herself.

Women who recently gave birth need plenty of time to connect with their newborns. That said, they also need energy to do this. A postpartum doula cares for baby while mama showers and naps, but is quick to offer the baby up and encourage active bonding when the mother is available.

Breastfeeding Assistance

Postpartum doulas are also great for breastfeeding support. Instead of bottle feeding whenever baby is in their charge, they will bring the little one to his or her mother. This helps the new nursing relationship blossom and grow stronger, something that can't happen when bottle feedings are offered as an option.

In addition to ensuring baby is nursed whenever hungry, postpartum doulas are often able to offer tips and advice to mothers who are having trouble breastfeeding. This can be enormously helpful to a new and frustrated mother.

On the other hand, a nanny might be quick to quiet baby with a bottle, and may have no experience at all with breastfeeding. In any case, a nanny is unlikely to be willing to offer breastfeeding support.

Family Support

A good postpartum doula knows that it's her job to help the family adjust to their new addition and ensure this transition goes as smoothly as possible. She will offer help wherever she sees she is truly needed, but she's also acutely aware that the family needs to find their own rhythm. Therefore, a postpartum doula doesn't inject herself unnecessarily and will often offer tips to help the family get things on the right track.

This is in contrast to a nanny, who is only in the home to care for baby. This care may be helpful in the short run, but will be difficult for the family to wean themselves from later. It may also make it hard for the family to find their own way of doing things.

As you can see, while there is nothing wrong with hiring a nanny in many scenarios, postpartum doulas are a superior option for families with a brand new addition.

Are you looking for post-birth help in Oklahoma City? We'd love to assist! Contact us today for more information on our postpartum doula services.